The Dating Couple

First off, I know this isn’t the typical subject one would expect to read about on a sex blog. However, it is a natural part of being a woman and it does interrupt our sex life. So, I’m going to discuss it here, though I’ll try to leave out all the really gross stuff that very few would want to read about.

My “special time” of the month (whoever came up with that term must have been thinking of the dumb things girls do when their on their period) is now happily regulated by birth control. Before birth control, I would usually turn into Super Bitch for a week at a time, no I didn’t have the luxury of a natural three day cycle. So, this usually meant that it was best to leave me alone completely.However, since getting on the pill, my hormones are mostly under control and I have a lot fewer problems, thus everyone else around me does also.

When I was with my first, he liked to have sex during my period. I wasn’t enjoying sex anyway with him, so what did I care. I could fake it any day of the month. But when I met Jonathan and started enjoying sex, this just wasn’t the case. I realized that not only was it pretty gross, but I also lost a lot of sensitivity inside. To make matters worse, things were so slippery that he couldn’t feel much either. So, we don’t do that anymore.

There are some periods where I am just horny as all hell though. For those times, I rub myself under my panties. Sometimes I’ll put on a school girl outfit and lie on my stomach to rub away, while Jonathan spanks me and tells me what a bad girl I am.

More often than not though, he reaps the benefit of my wanton feelings. Since I know I can’t get off completely at this time, I try to get him off as best I can. This means that now for three days out of a months he receives multiple blow jobs from me. Not just the I don’t want to fuck but I don’t want you to jerk off while looking at other women (sometimes I’m jealous during my period) blow jobs either. It’s the long slow build up ones with lots of teasing. I love giving to him, seeing what how far I can take him. I love bringing him to the brink, and then stopping while he’s tied up. I prolong his orgasms letting him rise and calm until I’m ready to let him explode. I get off on watching him cum.

Although this time is not the only time I give him blow jobs like this, it is the most frequent time. Usually, I get so wound up watching him build that I just jump him and fuck him silly. However, when I can’t I really enjoy watching the show. Have I mentioned before that he’s a screamer? There’s nothing more enjoyable to me than pleasing my lover. I am a giver and I it is an ego boost to know that everyone since my first has told me I (we were) was their best lover. I like finding the cues and trying new things all in an effort to make their experience more pleasurable.

Although I was feeling pretty bad when I started this article, I’ve gone and gotten myself all wound up. So, I’m going to get Jonathan off.

If you have any thoughts on what you do for relief during your time, I’d love to hear it.